HERE WE GO :As a lifelong Sooners fan, I think it’s time to admit that BV is in way over his head. He has no idea how to lead

I’m about to get very very personal in hopes that this could help someone, as I spent countless hours trying to find a cure online for this nightmare. I have been BV free for about 6 months(having sex twice a day or more and still nothing) and I’m optimistic the nightmare will be over for good.

The first time I got BV I have no idea how or exactly why. I was being treated for a kidney infection and ended up with BV which I had never heard of. That was over 2 years ago. I took the antibiotics like they told me and never had a recurring problem despite stressing after reading this was incurable online (but I was not sexually active with my boyfriend for a long time afterwards).

Flash forward to my new  relationship. I was very depressed and in a really bad place with everything. I had just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years and I made the mistake of jumping into a new relationship with someone I knew wasn’t completely faithful to me. However, he was the only person I was with. I got BV back immediately. I took about 3-4 rounds of antibiotics in a year. Shoved every supposed cure out there up my vagina and then some. I’m talking boric acid, salt baths, ACV, lemon water, changed my diet and cut out sugar. Nothing worked. Everytime we had sex. BV.

Last November I ended up going to the doctor again but this time I also had chlamydia that I got when my boyfriend cheated on me. I was devastated but for some reason I cured the chlamydia and took him back. However we ended up giving it back to each other due to us being stupid and bad timing. And of course I got the BV again.

So the second time(his 3rd time) we went in to get cured for this they gave us both some heavy duty antibiotics. Upon reading about it(I forgot the name) I discovered they will halt the growth of any bacteria in your body.

I strongly believe he was the one reintroducing the BV bacteria to me every time and the antibiotics finally removed them from his body. Long story short we forgave each other and we are now exclusive and have not had any problems. Some doctors will say that they cannot give it back to you but I don’t believe it. It all adds up. I committed to 3 months of no sex (he just had to deal with it )and took 2 50billion vaginal probiotics everyday so that I could make sure I had a healthy flora before having sex again.  My plan actually worked. You HAVE to give yourself time to recover. Without a healthy flora you cannot fight off BV bacteria. Probiotics are a must.

Now I’m not a doctor but honestly doctors do not have a clue ! Not even specialists. I honestly believe I’ve researched BV more extensively than any doctor I’ve been to at this point. It is just like an STD you will keep passing it to each other I don’t care what the doctors say. So it goes without saying that with this being the most popular vaginal infection if you’re going with many guys or your boyfriend is going with many girls you will get it and keep getting it.

He HAS to get cured. And In case you’re wondering this is his last straw but our relationship is a complicated one. I’m also not saying your man is cheating, he could have just gotten the bacteria from you.

I hope this helps someone with this nightmare.

Antibiotics for both of you. Lots of probiotics for you. No sex for a few months until you’re balanced. Worked for me.

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